Secrets of Blend In: Not a Costa Rican in Costa Rica

If you're anything but a Costa Rican, there's no hiding it—but that's okay. Welcome to a place where you're a guest and they're eager to show you around. Just be yourself, respect their customs, and enjoy the journey.

Understanding the Costa Rican Mien

Is it your accent? Your clothing? Or your very presence? Yes, sometimes it's all of those. As I've lived in La Pura Vida for years and vacationed from the 1980s onwards, I've noticed that Costa Ricans can often tell a non-local. Whether it's your mannerisms, gestures, or accent, it's almost impossible to blend in without a bit of Central American blood or lifestyle.

Opting to Be Yourself

Be yourself and respect their local norms, and you'll be a welcome guest. Just recently, a friend's daughter faced visa issues for her college in the U.S. She planned to live with my family. Such plans don't always work out legally; it can be frustrating, but respect and open-mindedness will get you far.

Common Missteps for Non-Locals

Here are a few things that could give you away as a non-local:

Denim Shorts and Mom Jeans: Worn with white sneakers, this outfit screams tourist. Simply put, avoid it in Costa Rica. Rugged Outfit: Unless you're in the jungle or doing research, don't opt for heavy-duty rugged clothing. Costa Ricans dress casually yet fashionably. Safari Look: Walking around San José with khakis, a big camping backpack, and hiking boots or sandals? It's not necessary and looks ridiculous. Neck Camera: If you carry a camera around your neck, be cautious. Unless you're in the jungle, it’s better to keep it discreet. Loud Talkers: Loud voices trying to overpower others usually signal a gringo. Keep it low; even Costa Ricans tend to tone down the noise when there's a soccer game. Flip Flops: In the U.S., people wear flip flops everywhere. In Costa Rica, they're strictly for the beach. Socks with Sandals: This is a fashion no-no. Don't do it.

Embracing the Local Culture

Worry not, as long as you're cordial, patient, and open to learning a new culture, you'll fit in nicely. Costa Ricans adore foreigners and are keen on showcasing their rich culture. So, pack your patience, and let the adventure begin.