Introduction
Deployment is a challenging experience for Service Members, but many veterans are surprised to find that they need less support than expected upon their return. This article explores alternative and effective ways to support veterans beyond the usual welcome home cards and pressure.

Understanding the Veteran's Perspective

For many veterans, the assumption that they need or even want help is often misplaced. A personal experience, drawn from repeated deployments, suggests that most veterans are more adjusted and better off than the general public might assume. While the situation varies from individual to individual, many veterans have established stable lifestyles, with homes, families, and careers that are well in place. For example, with a 4 handicap, a nice home with a big lawn, and a well-taken-care-of family, the challenges of readjustment are often much more subtle and less pronounced.

Off the Beaten Path Support Suggestions

Demand Better Airliner Seating

One suggestion is to demand wider seats on planes. Low-key changes like this can make a service member's journey more comfortable and less strained. Discomfort on a plane can lead to unnecessary stress and anxiety, which are already heightened due to the transition from military to civilian life.

Public Spaces and Social Etiquette

Avoiding obtrusive behaviors in public spaces, like keeping phone conversations to a minimum, can also be helpful. Many veterans, like the author, prefer the privacy and space afforded by low-key interactions. Continuous presence and interaction can be pressuring and unwanted, so giving veterans the option to engage or not, is vital.

Vote for the People, Not Special Interests

Encourage grievances to be directed toward elected representatives rather than individual businesses or special interest groups. Voting is a fundamental right, and ensuring that representatives advocate for the needs of veterans can make a significant difference. Tightening the focus on selecting individuals who genuinely represent the people maximizes the impact.

Volunteer and Work Together

Volunteering for causes and initiatives that benefit the community can help veterans find purpose and a sense of belonging. Collaborative efforts can create a more supportive environment, fostering stronger social bonds and reducing feelings of isolation.

Seek Understanding and Tolerance

Encourage hugging those with opposing political views. Bridging political divides and making friends across the aisle promotes a more cohesive society. After extensive dialogue, maintaining the ability to still give a genuine hug proves the value of mutual respect and understanding.

Embrace Sleep Before Posting

Encourage individuals to put down their digital devices before posting anything online, especially content that might be provocative or inflammatory. Sleep often provides a clearer perspective, and waiting until after a good night's rest can make a significant difference in the tone and impact of communications.

Conclusion

Supporting veterans is not just about recognizing their service and sacrifices but also about creating a more inclusive and understanding society. The key lies in providing subtle, low-key support and encouraging behaviors that promote respect, tolerance, and community engagement. By advocating for wider airplane seats, maintaining social etiquette, voting for the people, volunteering, and embracing humility, we can collectively make a positive impact on the reintegration and well-being of our Service Members.

Key Takeaways:

Low-key social events: Involve them in relaxed gatherings to facilitate reintegration. Keep opinions to yourself: Respect their privacy and avoid continuous pressure to talk about their experiences. Vote and volunteer: Encourage active participation in local and national politics. Sleep before posting: Take time for reflection before sharing potentially controversial content.