Understanding Surname Inconsistencies in Muslim Families

It is quite common to encounter surname inconsistencies in Muslim families, particularly in multicultural environments like the United Kingdom. This article will explore the reasons behind these differences and provide insight into surname practices within the Muslim community.

Introduction to Surnames in Muslim Families

One of my colleagues, a Muslim girl, has a different surname compared to her brother. This observation led to curiosity about the underlying reasons for such surname variations within the same family. The question arises: why do members of Muslim families have different surnames? This article aims to clarify this concept, focusing on the experience in the United Kingdom. Additionally, we will delve into the cultural practices of naming in other Muslim-majority countries, particularly Indonesia.

A Multicultural Experience: The UK

My colleague, whom I work with, has a distinct surname from her brother who I attended university with. Interestingly, she is not married, which rules out that reason. During my university days, I also observed a pattern with three Malaysian Muslim students who preferred to be known by their given names rather than their father's surnames. This preference was consistently respected, indicating a respect for cultural and personal identity.

Cultural Practices in Indonesia

When you do not specify which Muslims you are referring to, it is important to understand that Muslims, as a religion, are diverse and do not represent a single ethnicity or nationality. One can observe the varying practices in surnames within different Muslim communities. For example, in Indonesia, where Muslims constitute about 87.2% of the population, surnames are not commonly used, let alone passed down through generations. Therefore, members of the same family may not share the same surname.

Practices Within Muslim Families

In my close friend's family from Indonesia, there are three siblings: two daughters and a son. The older sister has taken her father's surname, while my friend, the second daughter, bears her mother's surname, 'Fatima.' This is a common practice in many Muslim families, where names are often tied to parentage. For instance, fathers often pass their names to their sons, and mothers might pass their names to their daughters. Some surnames might be exclusively passed through the maternal line, such as 'Fatima' or 'Sultana,' which can only be used by daughters. On the paternal side, some names can only be passed to sons, and in some cases, an ancestor's name might be used as a surname. This practice not only ties individuals to their family lineage but also adds a layer of cultural and religious significance.

Implications and Cultural Nuances

The practice of using different surnames can have various implications. In some cases, it might be due to the lack of a common surname tradition, as seen in Indonesia, where surnames are not commonly used. In other cases, it could be due to cultural and religious practices, such as passing names through specific lineages. Each family's naming tradition is unique and should be respected and understood within its cultural context.

Conclusion

The inconsistency in surnames within Muslim families is a fascinating topic that reflects the diversity and richness of cultural traditions. Whether it's due to religious practices, cultural norms, or simply the absence of a common surname tradition, each family has its own unique story. Understanding these nuances helps in promoting a more inclusive and respectful approach to dealing with different cultural practices.